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ESV The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.
NIVA rod and a reprimand impart wisdom, but a child left undisciplined disgraces its mother.
NASBThe rod and a rebuke give wisdom, But a child who gets his own way brings shame to his mother.
CSBA rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a youth left to himself is a disgrace to his mother.
NLTTo discipline a child produces wisdom, but a mother is disgraced by an undisciplined child.
KJVThe rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
NKJVThe rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.
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A parent who thinks it is not loving to correct a child misunderstands the nature of love. Hebrews 12:5–6 reminds us that our heavenly Father disciplines His children because He loves them. This passage states: "My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives." Children need to be lovingly guided, even punished, so they learn to avoid even worse consequences (Proverbs 3:11; 13:24; 15:5; 22:15).
These verses do not encourage cruel or abusive retaliation by any parent. It is important to match the discipline with the offense. Likewise, it's necessary to ensure a child knows why they are being corrected, so they can learn. Paul commands fathers not to "provoke [their] children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Ephesians 6:4). Without discipline a child will engage in wrong behavior, and in doing so he will hurt others, including himself (Proverbs 8:33–36), and bring shame to his parents (Proverbs 19:26; 29:17).
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THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright© 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica®.
The Holy Bible, New Living Translation, Copyright© 1996, 2004, 2007. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. Carol Stream, Illinois 60188.
The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® Copyright© 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers.
New American Standard Bible Copyright© 1960 - 2020 by The Lockman Foundation.
Christian Standard Bible®, Copyright© 2017 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by Permission.